Is Pain Really a Normal Part of Aging? Why Getting Older Doesn’t Have to Hurt
Key insights: 60-second read
- Pain with aging is common, but not normal – almost one-third of adults over 45 experience persistent pain, but our bodies are designed to be pain-free with proper use.
- Your body adapts to how you use it – like a car that becomes more efficient with driving, your tissues morph to reflect your habits. Poor loading over time leads to dysfunction, not time in isolation.
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Age exposes accumulated effects, and doesn't create new problems – years of less-than-ideal postures and mechanics eventually surface as "age-related" issues.
Do you feel like your new or ongoing aches and pains are a normal part of the aging process?
If so, you are certainly not alone. Almost one-third of adults over the age of 45 experience pain lasting longer than 24 hours. And it may leave you feeling a little uneasy if it forces you to confront your physical mortality for the first time.
Is this the beginning of the end? Thankfully, the answer is a respectful "no," even if it is not immediately clear why.
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1. Is Pain a Normal Part of the Aging Process?
A lot of people do notice more physical pain and dysfunction with age, most of which have no obvious cause or trigger. So when looking for answers, it is entirely logical to blame the ravages of time – almost by default.
But a slight shift in perspective may bring a far more tangible explanation into focus.
For context, remember that in a perfect world, your musculoskeletal system is designed to be pain- and dysfunction-free. Now it certainly doesn't feel that way for a lot of people, but that is our natural, inherent baseline. Our tissue has this amazing ability to adapt and thrive with use and should not necessarily break down over time. Otherwise, what is the point of having tissue that cannot withstand the basic requirements of being a human?
"Age most likely won't create new dysfunction. But it can expose the accumulated effect of years of less-than-perfect postures, habits and body mechanics."
2. The Car Analogy
Take your car. Imagine it's made with adaptive materials rather than lifeless ones. What if the more you drive your car, the more fuel-efficient it becomes? Imagine it can rewire itself to better support the accessories you use most at the expense of those you don't.
In short, imagine your car continually morphs to reflect and support the way you use it. That is what our body does. It just adapts in a positive (or negative) way, behind the scenes, without us having to think too hard about it.
So if you feel like the aging process is catching up with you, ask yourself a simple question. As an adaptive machine, why has it not become really good at being used for so long?
Yes, accidents happen, but the dysfunction most attribute to age is often innocuous by comparison. A lot of it just... happens.
"The dysfunction most attribute to age is often innocuous by comparison. A lot of it just... happens. But 'just happens' isn't the same as 'inevitable'."
The disconnect here often comes back to how you use your tissues. Expose them to ideal loading, and they should, in theory, thrive indefinitely. Load them poorly for long enough, and you may slowly chip away at your body's ability to buffer against dysfunction.
Your body will still adapt, of course, but in this instance it will adapt to cope, not to thrive. Even the sturdiest of tissues will face defeat if poorly loaded for long enough.
3. Back Pain: The Sitting Connection
This can be anything from genuine low back pain to simply finding it harder to get out of bed or off the couch.
When trying to figure out how you load your spine, start with situations you find yourself in the most, and work backward.
Clinically, I find the quality of our spinal positions and shapes – most commonly when sitting – is by far the biggest culprit, because it occupies so much space in this modern world.
Think of the car, the computer, and the couch. Consider how you sit when eating meals or reading. How about in bed using your phone? Where are you creating a specific hinge through your spine?
If you don't sit much, great! What else fills that space? Do you constantly lean forward or bend over at work or at home? Are you lifting more than anything else? What spinal "themes" are sprinkled throughout your day?
Remember, if your back is not in a good position, those "thousand cuts" could be lethal given enough time.
4. Knee Pain: The Hip-Ankle Connection
In this instance, "age-related" knee issues are commonly a consequence of how they have been loaded, rather than how long they have been loaded for.
Interestingly, many people have one "worse knee" despite both obviously being the same age. If this is the case for you, you may have accrued some subtle dysfunction above and/or below the knee itself – usually at the hip and ankle.
A loss of surrounding mobility in these areas (often thanks to things like sitting habits and modern footwear) can force your leg to compensate at the knee as it tries to find a workaround. Over time, it's easy to blame the aging process when there might actually have been some covert mechanical dysfunction going on in the background the entire time.
At this point, it is important to acknowledge that there are some real musculoskeletal changes associated with the aging process. Your peak strength, speed, reflexes, and more will reasonably regress with age.
But the key difference here is that we do not consider these regressions dysfunctional. Your fastest 100m sprint time may decrease, but one of your knees should not wear down "just because" in the process.
The Bottom Line
So, if you (or someone you know) feel like age is catching up with you physically, take a step back.
Consider what broader postural and/or mechanical dysfunction might be in play behind the scenes. The devil is often in the details. But these details are easily missed if you aren't paying attention.
If you need specific help, please go see a trusted health professional. The beauty here is that it's never too late to do something, and you may be pleasantly surprised by the outcome.
You might just need the right perspective.
What issues have you always felt were age-related? Does this change your thinking in any way?
I hope this perspective offers a helpful shift in how you view age-related aches and pains. If you would like to explore this further or need help identifying the hidden factors behind your symptoms, please consider reaching out.
- Grant
Frequently Asked Questions
If pain isn't normal aging, why does almost everyone get it?
Because almost everyone has accumulated years of less-than-ideal movement and postural habits. Modern life involves prolonged sitting, repetitive postures, and reduced variety of movement. These factors create dysfunction that eventually surfaces as pain. It is common, but not biologically inevitable.
What can I do if I have already been in pain for years?
It is never too late to start. The body remains adaptable throughout life. A thorough assessment by a physiotherapist can identify the specific factors contributing to your pain. From there, a targeted approach can help you improve function and reduce discomfort, regardless of age.
Is there any truth to "use it or lose it"?
Absolutely. But it is more about how you use it, not just that you use it. Poor movement patterns can reinforce dysfunction. The goal is quality movement that loads tissues appropriately, allowing them to adapt positively rather than break down.
One key insight from this article
"Age most likely won't create new dysfunction. But it can expose the accumulated effect of years of less-than-perfect postures, habits and body mechanics. The pain is not from aging – it is from how you have used your body over time."
Reference: Patel, K. V., Guralnik, J. M., Dansie, E. J., & Turk, D. C. (2013). Prevalence and impact of pain among older adults in the United States: Findings from the 2011 National Health and Aging Trends Study. Pain, 154(12), 2649–2657. View Study
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